What Has Been The Most Difficult Thing You Have Had To Forgive?

Words spoken to me, from someone I loved and trusted, that tore me apart to the core.  That contradicted everything previously spoken to me, words that should not be uttered by anyone - particularly someone who "loves you."

Words you wouldn't even say to a stranger.

Words of Affirmation is my love language.  They are powerful things, words are.  That's why James encourages us to control our tongues.  They can cause such grief.

And that's what happened.  Grief.  Deep grief.  And nothing was the same after that.